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Good Girl
One of the things that therapy has taught me over the years, are the deep issues, traumas or unrecognized conditions that make me... me. But Smut Books, audio books and SmutTok have taught me that apparently I have a kink. I call it "The Good Girl". Looking at it...
Self Care/ Self Date
I've noticed that the older I get, the more I enjoy my own company. Even if I am in a relationship. And for some reason, I have found that some people think this is a bad idea. "What do you mean, you want to spend time alone? You have someone in your life now!" But...
Yours, Mine…Ours?
When they say sharing is caring, what exactly do they mean? Of course I am all for sharing...to a certain extent. As an only child, I admit my selfish streak, still runs pretty thick. I am funny about sharing my food, booze has a special section on my side of the bar...
Movie Couple Inspiration
I don't think of myself as a Rom-Com fan. And to be honest, most romantic movies are a bit cheesy to me. But there are a few for either story or soundtrack, I find myself enjoying. Recently I asked my fiancé if there is a movie which features a couple who he admires....
I must confess…I like reading smut!
When the "50 Shades of Grey" books first came out, I was working on cruise ships. Since we are very much like a small community, one young lady had the book and we soon began to pass it around our cast, taking turns reading about the exploits of the hottest bachelor...
A Girl and her Toys
A few days ago I had the horrorific experience of having a vibe die mid session. It of course was my own fault because I am the worst about charging them. Mainly because I leave them out and I hate the idea of my fiance seeing them and thinking "Oh, she's charging...
Setting Relationship Goals
With the start of each new year, we are quick to create goals for self improvement. But what about goals if you are in a relationship or building towards a relationship? Recently I spoke to my fiancé about setting weekly goals. Tasks that we want to accomplish for...
The Sex Drought
Sometimes, every once in a while, maybe more often then we desire or plan, you encounter a sex drought. There can be many reasons for this. I work in an industry that is season based. And when work is busier for me, the last thing on my mind is sex. Actually, that's a...
Cheers to 2021!
If you're like me, you spent 2021 thinking "Uhhh, so that was cute." And not in a good way. But you also thought that for a moment, at least it wasn't 2020. It is sad commentary that we have to look at life through COVID tinted lenses, but here we are. So what do you...